YOU Control YOUR Facebook...

"why is everyone in my goddamn business!  if i wantd you to know what I was doing every minute of my life i would calll you or txt you.  kmsl.  u ppl really have nuthing else to do with your time"
                                                                                            --via facebook status

PEOPLE, PEOPLE, PEOPLE!  This is probably a big reason as to why I DON'T spend much time on facebook anyway.  I wake up this morning to find this on my news feed from an anonymous friend & it took me for a loop.  You CAN'T be serious.  This post came from someone who updates EVERY 5 minutes... "i'm at the movies", "i'm eating lunch", "i'm driving to the mall", "i'm taking a piss"...like seriously, not saying people don't care but WHO CARES?  Take the time to think before you post.  Trust me...it's not that hard.

YOU control YOUR facebook.
I'm one of those people who comments on EVERYONE'S post when I'm bored -- that's just what I do. Don't post it if you don't want people to comment on it.  You can't seriously tell people to stay out of your business when you post EVERYTHING via facebook.  Then have the NERVE to delete someone's comments when they say something to or about your situation.  There have been plenty of times I've wanted to say something, I've wanted to comment on a situation, but then I think about those who are my "friends" on facebook & THINK about what would be said (both good & bad) & I weigh my options.

Stop being so bitter.
Some people always have something negative to post on their status'.  Try switching it up here & there.  I know your life can't be THAT bad that you have to down yourself or slander someone's name who doesn't even have a facebook account.  You down your mothers, fathers, siblings, even your kids and get mad when someone comments, "stop talking about _____ like that".  You guys (and gals) do the most.

LIMIT yourself.
This one is especially for you guys & girls who have significant others.  Why post something you KNOW will get questioned, then have the audacity to get mad when questioned about it.  Not to mention, post on your facebook that he/she is mad about it.  [smH].  I've been a victim of some [not only facebook] social networking controversy myself.  I didn't know you have a boyfriend, how was I supposed to know that?

Next time you feel the need to "snap" at someone for commenting on a status you posted for EVERYONE to see, take the time and ask yourself "do I REALLY want people to say anything about my post"?  It will save us time & you the grief.  Now go back to facebook & comment on people's statuses.